The "orgasmic" French kiss

How to French kiss
How to give a girl an orgasmic French kiss

Virtually every person above 18 years old can remember their first French kiss back in high school. It was a great experience for some and more like a tongue-war nightmare for others. But since then, we've all found out that French kissing is a very personal- and sensual (and often sexual) experience.

Because of the fact that women's lips are one of their foremost erogenous zones (sexually sensitive), it's very important for men to leave a lasting, eroticized impression in their (french) kisses. Do bare in mind that if you French kiss a girl like no other guy kisses her, letting her experience a French kiss like she never had before, you will most probably get to kiss something else soon after that! Do it right and she will long for your sex so much that she would almost instantaneously follow you to your bedroom! No jokes guys, this is my personal experience time and time again! So How to develop the perfect "orgasmic" French kissing techniques? ...


The skills and techniques of French kissing do not simply consist of knowing how to maneuver your tongue inside a girl's mouth, actually it involves the entire mouth area: lips, tongue, teeth, and to make it even better the rest of the body as well. Hold the girl's hand gently yet firm... Positioning one of your hands on her body while kissing her is especially important too. Holding the back of her face, her cheeks, behind her neck, or around her neck holding her shoulder while slowly guiding your tongue in her mouth, suck on her lips... this for certain will make her toes curl.

Also, pulling her hair back or slightly moving your hand over the part of her body that locates right under her breasts (her rib area) could make for some very tantalizing kissing sessions. This is 100% from my own personal experience and it does work amazingly.

HINT: About 3 out of 10 women feel very uncomfortable when a man touches her anywhere. This sometimes has to do with physical or sexual abuse in her past or present or simply because she's afraid of these new experiences. Don't ever force your hand to go anywhere when you get her signals that she feels uncomfortable with it. Don't pressure anything, it sometimes takes time for her to adapt to you touching her body. If you keep your patience and move things slowly she will almost certain allow you to touch her more each time. If however there is no change after a number of times, talk to her and try to find out what's wrong...

Since kissing your girl is probably one of the most important parts before you engage the next step (getting her in your bed), I made specially for you a selection of some fail-safe ways to make sure that your catch will want to kiss you anytime and anywhere.

Since people often give what they would like to receive, always pay close attention to the way she kisses you because that's probably the way she wants you to kiss her. Does she bite on your lips or try to gently suck all the saliva off your tongue? Well there's nothing in the world like getting just that what you want.

Does your newly scored hottie kiss you like she's trying to suck the life out of your freaking body? Or does she kiss too fast, too slow or without tongue, pe-ri-od? First of all, don't tell her what you don't like, but rather what you do like. That way you won't hurt her precious little girl feelings and you will keep yourself safe.

Controlling her mouth...hold her face with your hands and kiss her the way you'd like to be kissed. If the fact that you're taking control doesn't turn her on, then your sensual tongue will surely do the trick!

Play a little game...tell her that kissing her makes you so excited; then suggest to switch roles and ask her to kiss you the way you kiss her, because you want to know what it feels like. She'll be more than happy to cater to your request.

Make it last...there is almost nothing in this world that beats those long, slow, juicy, and exciting kisses. Your girl will definitely feel your passion through one of those prolonged succulent kissing moments. Kiss her hard and deep (when you feel she's ready for it).

This is all about technique... now that you found out how to get her to kiss you the way you like, let's move on to the experimental ways, which will make her think about you and want you all the time.
Suck on her tongue, turn your mouth into a soft suction machine on her tongue. If you'd like, suck on her tongue mimicking the way you would suck her clit. She'll most probably understand the message.

Lick her lips with your tongue and make sure you get creative for example by licking on her upper- and lower lips in a slow, ticklish way. Once you have lubricated her lips thoroughly move your lips around her lips and wet both of your outer mouth.

Suck her lips...one at a time, no one wants to feel as though they've stuck their mouth on an opened vacuum.

Be careful when you suck on her lips; don't get too rough or you'll end up giving her a hickey, and I have yet to meet a girl who would appreciate that! Move beyond her mouth, don't be shy, you're not confined to kissing just her lips -- there's a whole face and body to explore. Why not French kiss her chin, her neck and her breasts? Or kiss the spot behind her ears or her wrists. But don't make it too wet, many girls don't like the feeling of their face almost swimming in saliva...

You will be pleasantly surprised at the beneficial results that creativity can reap. All you really need is the willingness to try anything. If you've never been complimented on your kissing techniques before, now you'll know the basics of being a professional kisser. And believe me, I have been complimented more times I can remember, so take it from me!

Oh and by the way, when you kissed a girl and pull back, her eyes stay closed for just a moment longer, it means that she honestly enjoyed it and there's a good chance that you can further seduce her if you like.

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