The art of seduction

The art of seduction is an extremely well-written, scene-famous book. An expert guide to power of attraction by the bestselling author, and seduction artist Robert Greene, who also wrote The 48 Laws of Power. The mesmerizing exploration of the most subtle, elusive, and effective form of power is a masterful analysis of civilization's greatest seducers, from Cleopatra to JFK, as well as the classic literature of seduction from Freud to Kierkegaard and Ovid to Casanova. A real MUST-READ and MUST-HAVE book for those who want to master the art of seduction. I myself have read it at least twice, and the book is always around for quick reference and inspiration.

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Alpha-dominance vs. Rapport

Alpha-male dominance vs. Rapport

One thing we know for sure is that girls come in all different flavors, varieties, shapes and sizes. Not only in looks but more importantly in inner configuration and the manifestation of that, their behavior. The way girls look on the outside is usually linked closely to their mental behavior. For example, a 9= or 10-girl looks stunning, sexy and has an extreme physical attraction to guys. They have in most cases a large self-esteem. 7- or 8 type of girls have the looks, but are not naturally the absolute most attractive ones. They usually feel insecure about themselves and look for a guy who is both strong and touch as well as emotionally capable enough to understand her feelings. The lower you go, the more their need grows for this emotional interaction (getting rapport) with a guy.

Communication, more then words

How do I flirt with a girl?

Did you know, that in our communication with girls or even anyone else, words just only count for a very little percentage (some 15%) on the end-result...? What else is so much more important you may wonder? Well, think about gestures, posture, the intonation and tone of voice...but also our ability to interpret our counterpart correctly and swiftly.

In fact, when it comes down to the art of picking up girls, the actual words and sentences you squirt out on her are not quite so important. It's everything around it that matters most! You need to get her, so to speak, in a kind of trance-like state, to allow yourself to agree on whatever things you are about to propose to her. And that you are doing by influencing her mind with smoothly applied signals, the way you get the words out of your mouth into her brain and subtile actions.

Related to all of this is the concept of first impression. It defines for over 50% how a girl mentally sees and perceives you, even months or years after that first single impression, so be sure to get your act together right from the very first start!

Remember these things next time you're picking up a girl: ATTITUDE, APPEARANCE, BODY :LANGUAGE and EMOTIONAL EXPRESSION. If you know how to master these things, it really doesn't matter what you say to her (unless you call her dear mother a fat cow ofcourse).

The dependency pattern

Making a girl depend on you, whether emotional, psychological or physical is a great tactic to make sure she'syours at will. I'm not talking about feeding her drugs or getting her to depend on you financially; rather would you act to be the only guy who truly understands her feelings and emotions. Or you would "simply" give her the best sex she has ever had. I could name a few others, such as social dependency or you helping her ith her maths...at the end it all comes down to a situation in which she barely can do without something you are giving her.

The dependency pattern is a powerful tool in your seduction arsenal. You should always observe carefully and try to determine what her deepest needs really are. Once you figured that one out you can act on this opportunity. You could also use other techniques to escalate or explode certain needs she has, or downgrade them when they're not so favorable for you.

The hard-to-get tactic

She desperately wants you

This technique is quite basic and relatively easy to play, especially on girls who are too hot and too popular. You've heard it before and it's true, if you play hard-to-get specific girls (I will teach you which ones later) find it very hard to resist on getting you. The things we can't get are often the most desirable things... And that's exactly how you're gonna play her.

Boyfriend destroyers, #1

This is one of the many example responses you can use in the the Boyfriend Destroyer Sequence, an expert seduction  technique used by pro-seducers. More about this technique as well as many more other examples elsewhere on this blog, so stay here!

The fractionation technique, 100% success within 10 minutes. It's the deadliest of 'em all!

Fractionation was discovered by Sigmund Freud and further developed / enhanced by Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP) founder John Grinder. The deadly seduction technique was first only used only the  seduction underground scene, but when it received some media attention it resulted in some controversy and confusion. What’s amazing about the fractionation technique is that it's said to be one of the few “forbidden patterns” which provides the ultimate seduction technique, a shortcut with guaranteed success.

Picking up girls with the "cold reading" technique

Cold reading is a great tool that can really help you in how to attract agirls.  It’s one of the amazing  amazing seduction techniques that builds comfort, gets them to show up for your dates and get them talking and thinking sex.  It takes some time to perfect the skill, but it’s well worth it because it will make you much better at attracting those hot girls.

The "orgasmic" French kiss

How to French kiss
How to give a girl an orgasmic French kiss

Virtually every person above 18 years old can remember their first French kiss back in high school. It was a great experience for some and more like a tongue-war nightmare for others. But since then, we've all found out that French kissing is a very personal- and sensual (and often sexual) experience.

Because of the fact that women's lips are one of their foremost erogenous zones (sexually sensitive), it's very important for men to leave a lasting, eroticized impression in their (french) kisses. Do bare in mind that if you French kiss a girl like no other guy kisses her, letting her experience a French kiss like she never had before, you will most probably get to kiss something else soon after that! Do it right and she will long for your sex so much that she would almost instantaneously follow you to your bedroom! No jokes guys, this is my personal experience time and time again! So How to develop the perfect "orgasmic" French kissing techniques? ...

Getting girls into your bed with the Double Bind Technique

Seduce girls with the
double bind technique

Here are some tips to get girls to sleep with you or do whatever you want using the double bind technique.  The double bind technique is used when you’re getting a girl to shape her behavior towards your desired end-result by getting her to accept your sexual frames.  A double bind is where you ask a question or make a statement, and no matter how she answers, she'll have to accept the sexual frame you’re setting.

An example of a double bind a girl could give you: “Are you a player?”  Either way that you answer, you’re accepting her frame.  If you say that you are, you’re telling her that you’re a cool, suave player that’s trying to impress you.  If you say that you’re not, what you’re actually saying is that you’re a nice guy and you’re not like those guys.