Don't convince her, convince yourself!

Self convidence and seduction

Go ahead, admit it, when you're approaching a hot girl, deep inside you feel insecure and scared to death she will reject you or even worse! But all that fear only exists inside of you and has absolutely no fair basis at all. In fact I can tell you this one little secret with an enormous impact: If you wanna get a girl to do with you whatever you want her to do (including the naughty things), then you should convince yourself rather then to convince her!

Sexually seducing hot girls
Tricks, secrets, Techniques

This may sound a bit out of the ordinary but here’s why. Girls almost always (instinctively and naturally) fall for guys who are confident and who show a certain degree of personal power and charisma. Once you have that, no matter how ugly you may be, any girl will want to go with you. Don’t take it too far, don’t act like an asshole...just show your relaxed side, let her feel naturally comfortable and  don’t be afraid to cross the social conversation barrier a little into the realm of sexual seduction. Also use body-language, anchoring and other tricks to get even better results. You can read more about those techniques further along on this blog.

Communication, more then words

How do I flirt with a girl?

Did you know, that in our communication with girls or even anyone else, words just only count for a very little percentage (some 15%) on the end-result...? What else is so much more important you may wonder? Well, think about gestures, posture, the intonation and tone of voice...but also our ability to interpret our counterpart correctly and swiftly.

In fact, when it comes down to the art of picking up girls, the actual words and sentences you squirt out on her are not quite so important. It's everything around it that matters most! You need to get her, so to speak, in a kind of trance-like state, to allow yourself to agree on whatever things you are about to propose to her. And that you are doing by influencing her mind with smoothly applied signals, the way you get the words out of your mouth into her brain and subtile actions.

Related to all of this is the concept of first impression. It defines for over 50% how a girl mentally sees and perceives you, even months or years after that first single impression, so be sure to get your act together right from the very first start!

Remember these things next time you're picking up a girl: ATTITUDE, APPEARANCE, BODY :LANGUAGE and EMOTIONAL EXPRESSION. If you know how to master these things, it really doesn't matter what you say to her (unless you call her dear mother a fat cow ofcourse).