Step out of your comfort zone

I've talked about how to train your ego in a previous article. Part of that means that you need learning to step out of your comfort zone if you ever want to attract beautiful women or even accomplish anything more then that in your life! This includes dating hot girls / women, the opportunity to fuck any girl you want and, if you meet a really great one, move it further into a relationship.

Learn how to get out of your comfort zone

Seducing is a game

Seducing girls...
Like a game of poker

Just like playing a game of cards, picking up girls should be fun and exciting. These are the best motivators you will ever get apart from the actual prize you can win. Besides that, there are more things that link a game of cards with the game of seduction. Imagine you are playing poker... You may have a very good hand, but if you fail to bet into it your game is lost and you end up with nothing. On the opposite, you could have a very bad hand of cards...but this doesn't mean at all you cannot play a successful game. Bluffing yourself to a winning position is a very good tactic when it comes to picking up girls as well! So have fun, play your game well, and don't be sad if you're not a top-ranked hunk attracting all the girls on natural pilot...it's the way you play that decides what you can or cannot get!

Test subjects

Tell the McDrive girl to write her QQ
or Facebook ID on the receipt. Ddon't
ask her, tell her. Works most of the time.

This week I received an email from a reader who wishes to remain anonymous. He asked me what to do when you basically know some tricks but you lack the required self-confidence to actually get out there and do it. Well, the best way to grow your self-confidence in this specific area is to start at a comfortable level. Use small bits and pieces of the tips/tricks on this blog on girls you feel acceptably comfortable with, and with whom you don't necessarily need anything. Using the material on girls you are very distant at and see only once and never again is also a way to practice without too much emotional pressure.

For example, you may test your flirting skills on the KFC delivery line girl, a waitress in a coffee-shop or a stewardess on your next flight. Those are very safe test-subjects, who will usually stay polite with you (because they are in function) and you don't have to worry about people you know watching the whole thing.  Start small, slowly look into their eyes a little longer every time you practice, try a new line every now and then and try to analyze their reactions. Once you are feeling comfortable with interacting on a slightly more intimate level you will be able to grow your confidence and techniques bit by bit.

I'm putting a list up in the VIP section of possible test subjects.

Do they masturbate that much?

Not only we love to play with pussy

To the average John Doe, women may not seem to be lusty wild animals when they're all by their-selves  but certainly make no mistake, they go on masturbating tour more often and longer then we guys do! This is a lesser known fact, but proven and supported by numerous research projects and studies in the past few years. The latest (2012) being an anonymous survey conducted among 16.000 women in the US, Europe and Asia.

One thing this survey shows is that the average woman (28 years old, with regularly sexual intercourse and working a day-job) tends to masturbate some 622 minutes (or 10,3 hours) per month (or 20 minutes a day). -on average-. Imagine how many hours the dirty minded girls spend working their own pussy! So knowing that, you also know that girls are more willing to have sex with you than what you may initially think. And that's a great confidence booster :)

Man = hunter

This article is part of the series Foundations of manhood

Fact: You are a guy, she is a girl - Nothing changes that and it comes with certain natural preferences, psychological behavior and sexually oriented drives. Especially our Testosterone makes us the alpha-male we are. We hunt and we capture. And because  it's one of our most primary (and oldest) genetic behavior patterns, you cannot simply walk away from that. You may try a few times in your life, but basically that hunting instinct will always be there. The point of all this is that if you're a hunter deep  down inside, you should let those feelings work. Don't let them being stalked by fears of rejection, self-sabotage techniques of the ego nor social perception of values (because they are dramatically way off!). So I hope this gives you a little extra motivation to become the man you really are!