Wear to attract!

Rob's got style

Too many guys out there (I encounter them on a daily basis) try so hard to game pretty, sexy and cute looking girls, but when they would see themselves in the mirror...they would be ashamed of their own dressing-style! Come on folks, you're not going to attract hot girl by looking like a nerdy, poorly clothed man! Girls like to look good in trendy fashion and they love to see guys doing the same.

Do yourself a BIG favor an walk over to your wardrobe (if you even have one) and THROW OUT everything that doesn't comply to current fashion trends! Next, go to a good fashion-store, or even more convenient, visit Amazon's men-fashion section (which always offers great deals on current trendy fashion) and get yourself updated :)

Don't know how to choose a good looking, attractive style for yourself that attracts girls? Find a well-dressed girl who is willing to help you. It can be your older sister, your best friend or (sometimes not the best option) an ex. To help you out a little bit, here are a few examples (I've recently bought myself) that will definitely get you going with the ladies:

By Don Ed Hardy: Fleur de lis Ringer with large tattoo print $20.95 (cheap and satisfactory, wear it often)

Rude Indigo bleach-washed hooded denim vest $44.50 (good quality for this price)

Yoropiko Pink/SkyRoyal Hungry Dragon denim $899.00 (well-worth if you have this kind of cash)

Allegra K tight-fitting long-sleeve top $14.20 (great item to wear on the more formal occasions

The art of seduction

The art of seduction is an extremely well-written, scene-famous book. An expert guide to power of attraction by the bestselling author, and seduction artist Robert Greene, who also wrote The 48 Laws of Power. The mesmerizing exploration of the most subtle, elusive, and effective form of power is a masterful analysis of civilization's greatest seducers, from Cleopatra to JFK, as well as the classic literature of seduction from Freud to Kierkegaard and Ovid to Casanova. A real MUST-READ and MUST-HAVE book for those who want to master the art of seduction. I myself have read it at least twice, and the book is always around for quick reference and inspiration.

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Hitting the snooze...or the gym

It can be quite a challenge trying to get out of your bed in the morning to head to the gym for the good cause of a healthy and sexy body, especially when it's cold outside, your bed is convenient and you didn't have as many hours of sleep as you would have wanted. But...here's a tip that may well prevent you from hitting the snooze button!

Knowing that someone is waiting for you and will hold you accountable when you show up late (or not at all) can really make the difference between dreaming on like a baby and putting on your gym-wear!

But how to find someone willing to meet you at such insane early hours? And what kind of partner should you look for anyway? Lovers are not always that loving at five in the morning...

Well, why don't you combine this with a girl you've met in your dating-gaming? You can choose a girl who is somewhat difficult to get, but at the same time very willing to be friends with you -and= looking for some sporty activity. You may even have a girl in mind who already goes to the gym every so often morning and propose to meet her up in the gym on fixed days. This way you hit two targets in one and yes I'm pretty sure that the one experience compliments -and- advances the other!

Call it gym-dating or whatever you can come-up with yourself...turn it into a regular routine and benefit double!

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Seducing is a game

Seducing girls...
Like a game of poker

Just like playing a game of cards, picking up girls should be fun and exciting. These are the best motivators you will ever get apart from the actual prize you can win. Besides that, there are more things that link a game of cards with the game of seduction. Imagine you are playing poker... You may have a very good hand, but if you fail to bet into it your game is lost and you end up with nothing. On the opposite, you could have a very bad hand of cards...but this doesn't mean at all you cannot play a successful game. Bluffing yourself to a winning position is a very good tactic when it comes to picking up girls as well! So have fun, play your game well, and don't be sad if you're not a top-ranked hunk attracting all the girls on natural pilot...it's the way you play that decides what you can or cannot get!

What if a girl has a boyfriend?

So, you're playing a cute girl...she has a boyfriend and you know it. And she knows that you know it. What is your approach? Well to be very straight-forward: IGNORE! She ,may from time to time mention him to remind you she's taken...just nod your head with a bit of envy in your expression and say nothing. Don't ever respond on anything that has to do with her boyfriend, she will soon enough know you don't care one bit about the boy and that you are MUCH MORE INTERESTING!

The thing is, if you get involved into any form of discussion with her about some particular guy who happens to be her boyfriend, the subject is shifted from you to him. Result: her thoughts will be focussed on him while she should ONLY be thinking about YOU. If you don't follow this rule you will never ever going to get it on with her! It may get her to realize (even more) that what she's doing with you is wrong...she may feel her emotional attachment to the boy at that moment...she may even compare his pros with your cons...hell, she may even do it all! Conclusion: get the subject out of the way as soon and smooth as possible.

Boyfriends are bullshit. Ignore their existence and game girls like you would do normally. Create a fun and exciting new world with just the two of you...unless the guy is standing right next to her of course. And what the fuck, if he's no match to you it will soon enough be evident to her that she's better of without him!

Remember it's a game of attraction. If you play the better game, she will be your trophy. Relationships come and go, nowadays they never last very long...so do feel free to seduce her boyfriend or not ;)

Case example: Rebecca

Becky in my car

As I'm driving around in my hometown, I notice a cute girl in her early twenties jogging alongside the road. She has dark-blonde, half-long, slightly curly hair, a few light-color highlights here and there...not much smaller then myself, I would say around 165 cm. While the distance between us gets closer, I am able to observe her a little better, she has nice boobies, I would give them a C36, a nice slim body-shape, wearing sunglasses and ear-pieces. Having passed her on the opposite direction of the road I turn my car and inspect her behind from a little distance. Well-trained and nice wide hips! She seems very sexy and attractive to me and I decide to give it a go.

Emotional momentum and texting

In the game of seduction, keeping emotional momentum after you've met a girl is very important. One of the most primary, powerful and best tools for doing that without overextending yourself is text messages. Come up with a good variety of original, sweet, funny and interesting texts you can send to her, starting from the very day you meet her. You should have actual phone conversations within 2-3 days of first meeting, but keeping a text exchange going insures that you stay fresh in her mind and maintain her positive emotional associations with you.

12 free Valentine e-cards

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Alpha-dominance vs. Rapport

Alpha-male dominance vs. Rapport

One thing we know for sure is that girls come in all different flavors, varieties, shapes and sizes. Not only in looks but more importantly in inner configuration and the manifestation of that, their behavior. The way girls look on the outside is usually linked closely to their mental behavior. For example, a 9= or 10-girl looks stunning, sexy and has an extreme physical attraction to guys. They have in most cases a large self-esteem. 7- or 8 type of girls have the looks, but are not naturally the absolute most attractive ones. They usually feel insecure about themselves and look for a guy who is both strong and touch as well as emotionally capable enough to understand her feelings. The lower you go, the more their need grows for this emotional interaction (getting rapport) with a guy.

Communication, more then words

How do I flirt with a girl?

Did you know, that in our communication with girls or even anyone else, words just only count for a very little percentage (some 15%) on the end-result...? What else is so much more important you may wonder? Well, think about gestures, posture, the intonation and tone of voice...but also our ability to interpret our counterpart correctly and swiftly.

In fact, when it comes down to the art of picking up girls, the actual words and sentences you squirt out on her are not quite so important. It's everything around it that matters most! You need to get her, so to speak, in a kind of trance-like state, to allow yourself to agree on whatever things you are about to propose to her. And that you are doing by influencing her mind with smoothly applied signals, the way you get the words out of your mouth into her brain and subtile actions.

Related to all of this is the concept of first impression. It defines for over 50% how a girl mentally sees and perceives you, even months or years after that first single impression, so be sure to get your act together right from the very first start!

Remember these things next time you're picking up a girl: ATTITUDE, APPEARANCE, BODY :LANGUAGE and EMOTIONAL EXPRESSION. If you know how to master these things, it really doesn't matter what you say to her (unless you call her dear mother a fat cow ofcourse).

Jealousy as a seduction tool

In many situations, depending on your subjevts' character and behaviour, using jealousy as a seduction tool could proof to be a very effective and powerful method you should sometimes utilize in your goal to to get a girl to have sex with you. If you manage to do it in a correct way, making her think it all comes from within herself, the jealousy seduction pattern can turn women from being totally careless about you to begging you to sleep with them! To be honest, in fact they think they want you more then they actually do. This technique makes them play hard for you as if you were the world-cup trophy and it most probably, at the end, makes them do things with you that they would normally would never ever consider doing!

Read the full article: Sex seduction secrets - How to use jealousy to get sex from women

Aphrodisiacs

Aphrodite, the goddess of
love and sex

From food to supplements and drugs to movies, music or books to many more, aphrodisiacs have been around for ages. In this article I'm going to explain which things work and which don't, why they do or don't work and how to properly use them to sexually enhance your opposite's mood for sex. An aphrodisiac is something that increases sexual desire. The name comes from Aphrodite, the Greek goddess of sexuality and love. Throughout history, many things have had a reputation for making sex more attainable and pleasurable.

Now, let's move-on to the interesting part:

List of CHEMICAL APHRODISIACS
Top 10 most effective FOOD APHRODISIACS
These proclaimed APHRODISIACS WON'T WORK
Top 5 most effective APHRODISIAC DRUGS
How to PROPERLY USE APHRODISIAC DRUGS
Top 25 most effective MOVIES to watch with a girl

The power of thoughts

You may believe that everything you thing is totally private and never leaves the boundaries of your body. Wrong! Thoughts actually are electrical pulses that not only travel through our brain and nervous-system, but are transmitted out of our bodies as well. Just like radio-signals, waves of thoughts are sent out continually. On a conscious level we, humans, are not able to receive and identify thoughts from other people, but sub-consciously we can. And we do it all the time! This plays a major role when we "somehow suspect" someone is lying to us, or when we "feel" something is wrong with another person.

So now that we know this, how can we benefit from it in our seduction game? Well, in two ways actually:

• First-off, we are going to use our thoughts to influence our subjects unconsciously. We're going to use special highly powerful though-patterns to get them to think whatever we want them to think. And they will never even know these thoughts are coming from outside.

• Second, we are going to learn how to consciously interpret certain thoughts and feelings we unconsciously receive from our subjects.

So it's a two-way game, extremely powerful and effective. I've put up two separate training guides in the VIP-section that enable you to learn all the tricks and techniques in a matter of weeks to months (depending on your own mental capabilities). Remember though, this is stuff for pro's...I highly recommend you only start with this when you learned all the basic seduction techniques first!

4 things to start you off

Self-confidence masters all

Professional seduction artists are trained to get any girl, in any circumstance and at any given moment. They use highly sophisticated, specialized techniques, routines and mind-tricks. But standing at the very start of the road to become a seduction pro you first need a set of basic skills to allow yourself an almost instant improvement of your game. Here are some of the most important ones:

• Train yourself to be fully confident of yourself. That may seem difficult when you lack self-confidence but in fact it's not that difficult at all when you are able to change your mind-set. You can use NLP or other methods to accomplish more self-esteem and confidence. More on this in the VIP section.
• First impressions are everything when it comes to interacting with girls. Never go out un-orderly, let your personal style stand out from the crowd and keep your body clean and tidy.
• Prepare a set of at least 10 basic (but original) openers that you can use in any situation at any given moment. Practice them in the mirror and try to make it look as natural as possible.
• When interacting with girls always breath calmly. Slow breathing relaxes not only the body but also the mind, and that gelps you to get through any situation you may find difficult.

Quick tip: Play with style

Okay, let me be clear: Girls simply don't like guys who brag, talk about sex -all the time-, pick their nose or dress out-of-line. Just a few examples of what you should never do around a girl you want (or her friends!). All of this has everything to do with adjusting your personal style to grow your success in the seduction game.

Here are a few other things that -in general- dis-attract:

• Not holding a door for her; girls are usually very particular on this
• ·Smoking when she doesn't smoke at all; it doesn't look cool, it looks weak
• Asking for money or favors; it shows her you cannot be independent
• Asking for her phone number; you should create a circumstance in which she gives it to you instead
• Keeping your house dirty and unorganized; this is a definite no-no for most girls when they come over
• Intermediately looking at your watch or phone; this shows disrespect, gives her a signal of boredom and gets her out of trance

See a complete list of 150 style-mistakes for seducers in the VIP section