Spice up your relationship

When I scrolled through my email yesterday afternoon I noticed a particular email containing a very interesting question from Tony, a follower of this sexual seduction blog.

How do I keep my relationship exciting and passionate?

My girlfriend and I are together for almost three years now and at this point I notice that both of us start getting less interested in each other. The attraction slowly seeps away... Although I really want to stay with her, and I believe she also wants the same, but it's sometimes difficult to keep the relationship exciting. What can I / we do?

Curious to know how you can bring more passion to your relationship?
Read further: How to spice up your relationship

Thanks! Tony

What if a girl has a boyfriend?

So, you're playing a cute girl...she has a boyfriend and you know it. And she knows that you know it. What is your approach? Well to be very straight-forward: IGNORE! She ,may from time to time mention him to remind you she's taken...just nod your head with a bit of envy in your expression and say nothing. Don't ever respond on anything that has to do with her boyfriend, she will soon enough know you don't care one bit about the boy and that you are MUCH MORE INTERESTING!

The thing is, if you get involved into any form of discussion with her about some particular guy who happens to be her boyfriend, the subject is shifted from you to him. Result: her thoughts will be focussed on him while she should ONLY be thinking about YOU. If you don't follow this rule you will never ever going to get it on with her! It may get her to realize (even more) that what she's doing with you is wrong...she may feel her emotional attachment to the boy at that moment...she may even compare his pros with your cons...hell, she may even do it all! Conclusion: get the subject out of the way as soon and smooth as possible.

Boyfriends are bullshit. Ignore their existence and game girls like you would do normally. Create a fun and exciting new world with just the two of you...unless the guy is standing right next to her of course. And what the fuck, if he's no match to you it will soon enough be evident to her that she's better of without him!

Remember it's a game of attraction. If you play the better game, she will be your trophy. Relationships come and go, nowadays they never last very long...so do feel free to seduce her boyfriend or not ;)

Emotional momentum and texting

In the game of seduction, keeping emotional momentum after you've met a girl is very important. One of the most primary, powerful and best tools for doing that without overextending yourself is text messages. Come up with a good variety of original, sweet, funny and interesting texts you can send to her, starting from the very day you meet her. You should have actual phone conversations within 2-3 days of first meeting, but keeping a text exchange going insures that you stay fresh in her mind and maintain her positive emotional associations with you.

Alpha-dominance vs. Rapport

Alpha-male dominance vs. Rapport

One thing we know for sure is that girls come in all different flavors, varieties, shapes and sizes. Not only in looks but more importantly in inner configuration and the manifestation of that, their behavior. The way girls look on the outside is usually linked closely to their mental behavior. For example, a 9= or 10-girl looks stunning, sexy and has an extreme physical attraction to guys. They have in most cases a large self-esteem. 7- or 8 type of girls have the looks, but are not naturally the absolute most attractive ones. They usually feel insecure about themselves and look for a guy who is both strong and touch as well as emotionally capable enough to understand her feelings. The lower you go, the more their need grows for this emotional interaction (getting rapport) with a guy.

The dependency pattern

Making a girl depend on you, whether emotional, psychological or physical is a great tactic to make sure she'syours at will. I'm not talking about feeding her drugs or getting her to depend on you financially; rather would you act to be the only guy who truly understands her feelings and emotions. Or you would "simply" give her the best sex she has ever had. I could name a few others, such as social dependency or you helping her ith her maths...at the end it all comes down to a situation in which she barely can do without something you are giving her.

The dependency pattern is a powerful tool in your seduction arsenal. You should always observe carefully and try to determine what her deepest needs really are. Once you figured that one out you can act on this opportunity. You could also use other techniques to escalate or explode certain needs she has, or downgrade them when they're not so favorable for you.

A note about "extended one night stands"

Orgasmic sex screams for more!

Even though porn actresses fuck professionally, sometimes every week, most of them still have plenty of sex outside of their work. Why? Because great sex is fucking addict-able!

This is the reason why you should always get the most out of your best girls. What I mean is, when you have orgasmic good sex with a girl, why stop there? If the sex was SO AWESOME (and you will learn here how to be the best fucking sex God in the world) then she will definately let you do the magic more often!

She may would want to bind you, but if you're a happy free guy then be the man who tells her straightforward that you want to keep it on the ecstasy level instead of the love level. She will have not much choice then to accept that because she as well will hunker of this kind of bed action again.

By creating a girl-stash you will be insured of enough choice to make every fantasy reality. And at that level...little men have settled!