Emotional momentum and texting

In the game of seduction, keeping emotional momentum after you've met a girl is very important. One of the most primary, powerful and best tools for doing that without overextending yourself is text messages. Come up with a good variety of original, sweet, funny and interesting texts you can send to her, starting from the very day you meet her. You should have actual phone conversations within 2-3 days of first meeting, but keeping a text exchange going insures that you stay fresh in her mind and maintain her positive emotional associations with you.


Letting some time pass by after meeting a girl can kill your momentum. Why? She's moved on emotionally. Basically, she forgot how much she was into you that particular moment, met someone else or just doesn't feel it anymore. You've worked quite a bit to get her into your trance, and now she snapped out of it.

Most girls to some extent have emotional ADD until you cement a truly solid connection with them. They are all over the place and follow impulses and stimuli as they come along. Take this into account and use it to your advantage by making sure that you are one of those ongoing stimuli by keeping in touch regularly with txt messages.

Beware though that you don't present yourself as a desperate groupie. Texting too much, too often and too quick can kill your game as well. Don't immediately text her back, keep a few minutes to an hour between casual replies and only reply back immediately when the chat is sexy or smooth. There's one other important reason for thatr: it gives her time to "long" for your reply, it creates desire, and that's just the thing you want her to feel! So: carefully think about how much time you should pass-by before each text reply.