Sunday 10 February 2013

Communication, more then words

How do I flirt with a girl?
Did you know, that in our communication with girls or even anyone else, words just only count for a very little percentage (some 15%) on the end-result...? What else is so much more important you may wonder? Well, think about gestures, posture, the intonation and tone of voice...but also our ability to interpret our counterpart correctly and swiftly.

In fact, when it comes down to the art of picking up girls, the actual words and sentences you squirt out on her are not quite so important. It's everything around it that matters most! You need to get her, so to speak, in a kind of trance-like state, to allow yourself to agree on whatever things you are about to propose to her. And that you are doing by influencing her mind with smoothly applied signals, the way you get the words out of your mouth into her brain and subtile actions.

Related to all of this is the concept of first impression. It defines for over 50% how a girl mentally sees and perceives you, even months or years after that first single impression, so be sure to get your act together right from the very first start!

Remember these things next time you're picking up a girl: ATTITUDE, APPEARANCE, BODY :LANGUAGE and EMOTIONAL EXPRESSION. If you know how to master these things, it really doesn't matter what you say to her (unless you call her dear mother a fat cow ofcourse).

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