Alpha-dominance vs. Rapport

Alpha-male dominance vs. Rapport

One thing we know for sure is that girls come in all different flavors, varieties, shapes and sizes. Not only in looks but more importantly in inner configuration and the manifestation of that, their behavior. The way girls look on the outside is usually linked closely to their mental behavior. For example, a 9= or 10-girl looks stunning, sexy and has an extreme physical attraction to guys. They have in most cases a large self-esteem. 7- or 8 type of girls have the looks, but are not naturally the absolute most attractive ones. They usually feel insecure about themselves and look for a guy who is both strong and touch as well as emotionally capable enough to understand her feelings. The lower you go, the more their need grows for this emotional interaction (getting rapport) with a guy.


This is a basic guideline and it should not be taken for granted, since the ratio alpha-male-dominance vs rapport is also highly determined by personal preference, social status and many other factors. It's a quite complicated matter and finding out what is the right balance to apply on a specific girl requires a lot of experience and observation.

When should you give a girl rapport?

There are many tricks however, that allow you to shortcut yourself to a quite reliable conclusion. First-off you should start making a habit of mentally profiling your subjects. In the VIP-section you will find a pretty complete list of data you should gather from a subject in order to create a foundation-profile, which in essence, and in most cases enables you to determine what level of rapport she needs, and how much you should apply your alpha-male role.

Here are a few example indicators that a girl is looking for a guy who gives her more then average rapport:

• At a young age, her father left the family. She will most probably miss a father-figure in her life, and seeks that in a guy.
• She has been hurt intensively in a prior relationship, or is being hurt by her present boyfriend (emotionally or physical).
• When she has a lack of self-confidence, she will most probably feel the need for a guy who understands her feelings and emotions better then she does herself. She is highly attracted to guys who give her rapport.

In the VIP-section you will find a lot more examples of signs that a girl needs a high level of rapport. You will also learn more about how to interpret the way she responds to you, how to understand her body language and her interaction with other people. You will also learn techniques to get to know things about her while she doesn't even realize you are getting to know these very personal things. Finally I will teach you how to balance the hunk with the emotional supporter the right way.