Test subjects

Tell the McDrive girl to write her QQ
or Facebook ID on the receipt. Ddon't
ask her, tell her. Works most of the time.

This week I received an email from a reader who wishes to remain anonymous. He asked me what to do when you basically know some tricks but you lack the required self-confidence to actually get out there and do it. Well, the best way to grow your self-confidence in this specific area is to start at a comfortable level. Use small bits and pieces of the tips/tricks on this blog on girls you feel acceptably comfortable with, and with whom you don't necessarily need anything. Using the material on girls you are very distant at and see only once and never again is also a way to practice without too much emotional pressure.

For example, you may test your flirting skills on the KFC delivery line girl, a waitress in a coffee-shop or a stewardess on your next flight. Those are very safe test-subjects, who will usually stay polite with you (because they are in function) and you don't have to worry about people you know watching the whole thing.  Start small, slowly look into their eyes a little longer every time you practice, try a new line every now and then and try to analyze their reactions. Once you are feeling comfortable with interacting on a slightly more intimate level you will be able to grow your confidence and techniques bit by bit.

I'm putting a list up in the VIP section of possible test subjects.