Test subjects

Tell the McDrive girl to write her QQ
or Facebook ID on the receipt. Ddon't
ask her, tell her. Works most of the time.

This week I received an email from a reader who wishes to remain anonymous. He asked me what to do when you basically know some tricks but you lack the required self-confidence to actually get out there and do it. Well, the best way to grow your self-confidence in this specific area is to start at a comfortable level. Use small bits and pieces of the tips/tricks on this blog on girls you feel acceptably comfortable with, and with whom you don't necessarily need anything. Using the material on girls you are very distant at and see only once and never again is also a way to practice without too much emotional pressure.

For example, you may test your flirting skills on the KFC delivery line girl, a waitress in a coffee-shop or a stewardess on your next flight. Those are very safe test-subjects, who will usually stay polite with you (because they are in function) and you don't have to worry about people you know watching the whole thing.  Start small, slowly look into their eyes a little longer every time you practice, try a new line every now and then and try to analyze their reactions. Once you are feeling comfortable with interacting on a slightly more intimate level you will be able to grow your confidence and techniques bit by bit.

I'm putting a list up in the VIP section of possible test subjects.

Get sex from social media

Facebook: A great, safe tool for
picking up hot girls without having
to meet them first

Admit it, on Facebook you add hot girls that you don't really know, you flirt a little on Facebook chat, maybe do a little webcamming now and then. But getting these girls to actually have sex with you is a whole different dimension. There's a reason why people are so open and talkative on social network sites like Facebook, it's safe. Nobody else can see you, comments can be removed, friends can be blocked and written statae can be withdrawn in a matter of a click of tap.

To get girls out of this comfort zone and get them into your bed isn't the easiest thing to do for most guys. But there are certain proven techniques that can enable you to do exactly that! Basically you need three (3) conditions to be installed correctly.

1. Trust - You need to make sure she trusts you enough to let you access her protected zone (emotional level)
2. Added value - She need to be convinced that what you can give her is quite valuable to her (value level)
3. Attraction - You will need to attract her psyche, emotions and sex (sexual level)

These three ingredients together can potentially make any girl you meet on Facebook or some other social network into real life sexual adventure. Provided you do it all right of course. You can read all about that further ahead on this blog, so keep reading!!

TIP: Make sure you use a NATURAL profile picture that shows what a happy, fun-loving guy you are, keep a good posture, smile (naturally) and try to include an activity that you love to do such as playing the guitar, standing on a snowboard or play beach-volley. Girls love it!

TIP 2: Don't initiate a conversation with a cute sexy girl with things like "hey cutie...wow you look so sexy! wanna chat?" Girls get those kind of messages like a million times a day. Instead, try to open with a funny remark, ask her if she ever jumped from a plane before or something else original. Don't ever give her compliments! That will ruin your game!!!

EXTRA TIP: You can find some of the hottest girls on the sex social networking site Meendo (it's free and fun and a great way to practice your online seduction game!)

Share your story

As a writer it's always very nice to hear something back from readers, it gives me the chance to see more, and broader while I also love to know what happens in other people's lives. And both of us can benefit from both experiences and thoughts. So, do feel very welcome to email and share your own stories about seduction, sex and love. Or maybe you would rather write a guest-post, it's up to you! :)

The dependency pattern

Making a girl depend on you, whether emotional, psychological or physical is a great tactic to make sure she'syours at will. I'm not talking about feeding her drugs or getting her to depend on you financially; rather would you act to be the only guy who truly understands her feelings and emotions. Or you would "simply" give her the best sex she has ever had. I could name a few others, such as social dependency or you helping her ith her maths...at the end it all comes down to a situation in which she barely can do without something you are giving her.

The dependency pattern is a powerful tool in your seduction arsenal. You should always observe carefully and try to determine what her deepest needs really are. Once you figured that one out you can act on this opportunity. You could also use other techniques to escalate or explode certain needs she has, or downgrade them when they're not so favorable for you.

Do they masturbate that much?

Not only we love to play with pussy

To the average John Doe, women may not seem to be lusty wild animals when they're all by their-selves  but certainly make no mistake, they go on masturbating tour more often and longer then we guys do! This is a lesser known fact, but proven and supported by numerous research projects and studies in the past few years. The latest (2012) being an anonymous survey conducted among 16.000 women in the US, Europe and Asia.

One thing this survey shows is that the average woman (28 years old, with regularly sexual intercourse and working a day-job) tends to masturbate some 622 minutes (or 10,3 hours) per month (or 20 minutes a day). -on average-. Imagine how many hours the dirty minded girls spend working their own pussy! So knowing that, you also know that girls are more willing to have sex with you than what you may initially think. And that's a great confidence booster :)