The most basic kissing techniques every man should know!

French kissing tips :: Learn how
to kiss :: Kissing techniques

While kissing a girl may sound like a fairly basic skill and easy to learn, there are in fact a lot of things in the realm of kissing that many guys, to say the least, lack at large. Although they will probably be convinced differently. Even set aside the most basic kissing techniques tend to be screwed up or even bypassed completely by a lot of men all across the globe. That's why I have compiled a short yet handy, informative kissing tutorial / guide, teaching you the very basics as well as a few semi advanced kissing techniques.

Real good kissing, I mean the serious GOOD KISSING that impresses women and girls so much that they will brag about it to their friends and sisters (that could come extremely useful to you) is truly a very skillful art that you should most definitely master! And while this howto guide is there just to make you familiar with the ground principles of (mostly) French kissing, it will surely give you a good advantage over your competition!

Happy reading!

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Off topic: 2015 Bond girl?

Andrée Bernard a long
time ago when she played
Liz in Hollyoaks

If you love action movies like me, and you are a 007 fan you may be wondering who will be the next Bond girl on the production-line of Mi6's Hollywood escapades. Well, it seems that the choice has been made, not for one but for two 007 movies in a row, Andrée Bernard will be the next hottie who gets to sleep with Mi6-hero James Bond (who will again be played by Daniel Craig. The first of the two parts is set to be out in early 2015, so we have to hold on another very long time! -- Read more in the blogpost: Andrée Bernard the new Bond girl.

How to get a girl in your bed instantly and 99% guaranteed! One of the most effective secret sex seduction techniques around!

The following (quite exclusive) sexual seduction technique may well change your life forever! Do you want a certain girl to have sex with you almost instantly? You don't want to invest too much time and energy yet be able to have her in your bed before the clock strikes 12? Then pay very good attention because I'm about to share one of the best kept seduction secrets with you! And the best part of it all is: it's fun, exciting and very easy to do!

Continue reading: Learn one of the most effective secret sex seduction techniques

How to deal with love sickness / a broken heart

Let's be open and frank to each other and confess that you as much as I very well  know the following situation: Your girlfriend just broke up with you and you just can't get yourself to let her go. To make things worse, you've been hearing that the selfish bitch is getting fucked by  some other guy and it it makes you feel like shit! You're angry and jealous. You find yourself in a huge emotional roller coaster and if this continues any much longer you're seriously starting to fo crazy...

STOP RIGHT THERE BUDDY!

As hard as it may sound, all of this is actually a very normal and natural response and who can blame you but as natural as it may be... DON'T GO THERE, please ... for you own good sake!
Let me explain a little bit more on this subject, and you will start to understand what you are doing wrong and most importantly: how you can make this quick and easy for yourself!

How to deal with a relationship break-up

Want to have multiple orgasm's?

This is a question I receive quite a lot...

How can I have multiple orgasm's?

Well, I will give you a full guide on how to reach multiple orgasm's as a man in this very post! A lesson on how to turn your dick into a real unstoppable sex-machine!


I'm going to tell you exactly what to do, what not to do and what to work on in order to get multiple orgasms without ejaculating allowing you to keep your penis strong and hard throughout the entire night or even (like I love it every once in a while, an entire weekend non-stop. So why is it a good thing to have orgasm's without ejaculating, without shooting your hot and slimey sperm right into her pussy depth's? Sure, you can do that, when both of you are ready for the "final serenade, last call, the great finale, the big climax. This is something you can work towards while both of you have orgasms over and over again, enjoy the sex, enjoy the great feeling, all the nasty sex-positions and without worrying it will all soon be over because you would orgasm and we all know that when a man usually orgasms, the session is over until he gets in the mood again. Well, my friend, there is a way you can stay in that mood for hours while still being able to climax over and over again! The only rule to this game is...don't shoot your sperm.

You got interested didn't you? Go ahead...read on!

Step out of your comfort zone

I've talked about how to train your ego in a previous article. Part of that means that you need learning to step out of your comfort zone if you ever want to attract beautiful women or even accomplish anything more then that in your life! This includes dating hot girls / women, the opportunity to fuck any girl you want and, if you meet a really great one, move it further into a relationship.

Learn how to get out of your comfort zone

The extremely powerful deadlock seduction technique

I'm going to introduce you to the "deadlock", an extremely powerful seduction technique that will result in getting a women / girl to consciously agree to whatever you want her to agree on. To cut short, what this 99.9% effective technique of seduction does is to bring your subject into a situation where, whatever she responds back to you, will have no other outcome then your desired direction.

In actual fact she may think that she has fair choices, but all the other options she has are either too much too handle, too embarrassing or in another way not a feasible option she would choose to rather go for.

Sometimes it's necessary to present her with two (or even three choices whereby you already know she will never choose the "block-option(s)".

Read more: The deadlock seduction technique

How to boost your confidence

This articles is all about confidence building. In the game of seduction it is a vital thing to have an ocean of confidence with you, and in cases where you lack some of it, you should be equipped with the talent to fake your confidence so that the other party (women) won't have a clue that you're actually a tiny bit insecure while being with them. Confidence building is really something that requires practice, commitment and inner guts. But bro, by the time you have so much self-confidence (which is not the same as self-esteem by the way) you are ready to take on any girl slash woman you ever wanted to get!

How can I boost my confidence?

Lead the way

Learn how to seduce women
Taking the lead in interactions
with your female subjects

As a man, you have certain essential rules to play by as has been done for ages and is expected from you as a man when you are in the presence of a woman. One of those basic yet vital rules of the seduction game is that you should always take the lead when you're talking to or flirting with a girl or when there is a female present. She wants and expects you to do so and you absolutely need to follow that road if you want to move any foot further then just a plain and boring conversation with her. It could be very nice talking to her, but lets='s be honest, it's a million times more fun when she's naked and in your bed!

What does this mean in details?

Continue reading: Seduction secrets > Leading conversations
Or read this article in Indonesian: Pria harus memimpin wanita

Spice up your relationship

When I scrolled through my email yesterday afternoon I noticed a particular email containing a very interesting question from Tony, a follower of this sexual seduction blog.

How do I keep my relationship exciting and passionate?

My girlfriend and I are together for almost three years now and at this point I notice that both of us start getting less interested in each other. The attraction slowly seeps away... Although I really want to stay with her, and I believe she also wants the same, but it's sometimes difficult to keep the relationship exciting. What can I / we do?

Curious to know how you can bring more passion to your relationship?
Read further: How to spice up your relationship

Thanks! Tony

How to get her a fucking orgasm

Fact: most girls / women love the overall sexual activity just as much as the actual orgasm. In contrast to men who are more focussed on actually reaching the orgasm. The sexual feeling of men and women are slightly different. Women -don't need- an orgasm to enjoy sex fully while men usually feel unsatisfied when an orgasm is not reached.

That being said, you can still do your very best to give your female sex partner an amazing orgasm, or even a few in a row. Although their main focus is the sex and intimacy as a whole, it doesn't mean that they don't enjoy having an orgasm! In the following article you can read more about what you can do to give your girlfriend, wife or fling an awesome orgasm.

Read more: How to give women an amazing orgasm

Don't convince her, convince yourself!

Self convidence and seduction

Go ahead, admit it, when you're approaching a hot girl, deep inside you feel insecure and scared to death she will reject you or even worse! But all that fear only exists inside of you and has absolutely no fair basis at all. In fact I can tell you this one little secret with an enormous impact: If you wanna get a girl to do with you whatever you want her to do (including the naughty things), then you should convince yourself rather then to convince her!

Sexually seducing hot girls
Tricks, secrets, Techniques

This may sound a bit out of the ordinary but here’s why. Girls almost always (instinctively and naturally) fall for guys who are confident and who show a certain degree of personal power and charisma. Once you have that, no matter how ugly you may be, any girl will want to go with you. Don’t take it too far, don’t act like an asshole...just show your relaxed side, let her feel naturally comfortable and  don’t be afraid to cross the social conversation barrier a little into the realm of sexual seduction. Also use body-language, anchoring and other tricks to get even better results. You can read more about those techniques further along on this blog.

How to lick pussy for dummies

Welcome to the beginners crash course on How to lick your girlfriend's pussy! A nice, freely accessible starters tutorial that teaches you the basic techniques of oral sex on girls and women.

Enjoy and good luck!

The virgin Khmer girl

For the purpose of extending my visa I planned my once-in-three-months holiday break to Cambodia this time around. I've been there twice before, love the country, the people and the nature. I was going to stay for five days. Arrived at my hotel late night, so I didn't even unpack, took a quick shower and headed for dreamland. The next morning I woke up with the usual Phnom Penh city-sounds of cars, motorbikes, music and people. After a good shower and shaving, I went out and walked a little along the riverside boulevard. A great place to meet girls, and not more then ten minutes later my eyes already caught a great subject who was apparently just walking around doing nothing with her mother and small brother.

Continue reading: Spicy hot sex with a virgin Khmer girl

This is the difference...

HOW TO MAKE A MAN HAPPY

1. Feed him
2. Sleep with him
3. Leave him with peace
4. Don't check his phone (Msgs)
5. Don't bother him with his
movements
So whats so hard about that?

HOW TO MAKE A WOMAN HAPPY

It's really not too difficult but.... To make a
woman happy, a man only needs
to be:

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Flirting failure

Wear to attract!

Rob's got style

Too many guys out there (I encounter them on a daily basis) try so hard to game pretty, sexy and cute looking girls, but when they would see themselves in the mirror...they would be ashamed of their own dressing-style! Come on folks, you're not going to attract hot girl by looking like a nerdy, poorly clothed man! Girls like to look good in trendy fashion and they love to see guys doing the same.

Do yourself a BIG favor an walk over to your wardrobe (if you even have one) and THROW OUT everything that doesn't comply to current fashion trends! Next, go to a good fashion-store, or even more convenient, visit Amazon's men-fashion section (which always offers great deals on current trendy fashion) and get yourself updated :)

Don't know how to choose a good looking, attractive style for yourself that attracts girls? Find a well-dressed girl who is willing to help you. It can be your older sister, your best friend or (sometimes not the best option) an ex. To help you out a little bit, here are a few examples (I've recently bought myself) that will definitely get you going with the ladies:

By Don Ed Hardy: Fleur de lis Ringer with large tattoo print $20.95 (cheap and satisfactory, wear it often)

Rude Indigo bleach-washed hooded denim vest $44.50 (good quality for this price)

Yoropiko Pink/SkyRoyal Hungry Dragon denim $899.00 (well-worth if you have this kind of cash)

Allegra K tight-fitting long-sleeve top $14.20 (great item to wear on the more formal occasions

The art of seduction

The art of seduction is an extremely well-written, scene-famous book. An expert guide to power of attraction by the bestselling author, and seduction artist Robert Greene, who also wrote The 48 Laws of Power. The mesmerizing exploration of the most subtle, elusive, and effective form of power is a masterful analysis of civilization's greatest seducers, from Cleopatra to JFK, as well as the classic literature of seduction from Freud to Kierkegaard and Ovid to Casanova. A real MUST-READ and MUST-HAVE book for those who want to master the art of seduction. I myself have read it at least twice, and the book is always around for quick reference and inspiration.

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Hitting the snooze...or the gym

It can be quite a challenge trying to get out of your bed in the morning to head to the gym for the good cause of a healthy and sexy body, especially when it's cold outside, your bed is convenient and you didn't have as many hours of sleep as you would have wanted. But...here's a tip that may well prevent you from hitting the snooze button!

Knowing that someone is waiting for you and will hold you accountable when you show up late (or not at all) can really make the difference between dreaming on like a baby and putting on your gym-wear!

But how to find someone willing to meet you at such insane early hours? And what kind of partner should you look for anyway? Lovers are not always that loving at five in the morning...

Well, why don't you combine this with a girl you've met in your dating-gaming? You can choose a girl who is somewhat difficult to get, but at the same time very willing to be friends with you -and= looking for some sporty activity. You may even have a girl in mind who already goes to the gym every so often morning and propose to meet her up in the gym on fixed days. This way you hit two targets in one and yes I'm pretty sure that the one experience compliments -and- advances the other!

Call it gym-dating or whatever you can come-up with yourself...turn it into a regular routine and benefit double!

Enlarge your penis naturally #1

This is a very effective way to -temporarily- grow the size of your cock and over time more permanently if you use this method on regular basis. It involves the concept of vacuum suction, which enables a maximum amount of blood to be drawn into your dick and thus enlarging it.

Seducing is a game

Seducing girls...
Like a game of poker

Just like playing a game of cards, picking up girls should be fun and exciting. These are the best motivators you will ever get apart from the actual prize you can win. Besides that, there are more things that link a game of cards with the game of seduction. Imagine you are playing poker... You may have a very good hand, but if you fail to bet into it your game is lost and you end up with nothing. On the opposite, you could have a very bad hand of cards...but this doesn't mean at all you cannot play a successful game. Bluffing yourself to a winning position is a very good tactic when it comes to picking up girls as well! So have fun, play your game well, and don't be sad if you're not a top-ranked hunk attracting all the girls on natural pilot...it's the way you play that decides what you can or cannot get!

What if a girl has a boyfriend?

So, you're playing a cute girl...she has a boyfriend and you know it. And she knows that you know it. What is your approach? Well to be very straight-forward: IGNORE! She ,may from time to time mention him to remind you she's taken...just nod your head with a bit of envy in your expression and say nothing. Don't ever respond on anything that has to do with her boyfriend, she will soon enough know you don't care one bit about the boy and that you are MUCH MORE INTERESTING!

The thing is, if you get involved into any form of discussion with her about some particular guy who happens to be her boyfriend, the subject is shifted from you to him. Result: her thoughts will be focussed on him while she should ONLY be thinking about YOU. If you don't follow this rule you will never ever going to get it on with her! It may get her to realize (even more) that what she's doing with you is wrong...she may feel her emotional attachment to the boy at that moment...she may even compare his pros with your cons...hell, she may even do it all! Conclusion: get the subject out of the way as soon and smooth as possible.

Boyfriends are bullshit. Ignore their existence and game girls like you would do normally. Create a fun and exciting new world with just the two of you...unless the guy is standing right next to her of course. And what the fuck, if he's no match to you it will soon enough be evident to her that she's better of without him!

Remember it's a game of attraction. If you play the better game, she will be your trophy. Relationships come and go, nowadays they never last very long...so do feel free to seduce her boyfriend or not ;)

Case example: Rebecca

Becky in my car

As I'm driving around in my hometown, I notice a cute girl in her early twenties jogging alongside the road. She has dark-blonde, half-long, slightly curly hair, a few light-color highlights here and there...not much smaller then myself, I would say around 165 cm. While the distance between us gets closer, I am able to observe her a little better, she has nice boobies, I would give them a C36, a nice slim body-shape, wearing sunglasses and ear-pieces. Having passed her on the opposite direction of the road I turn my car and inspect her behind from a little distance. Well-trained and nice wide hips! She seems very sexy and attractive to me and I decide to give it a go.

Emotional momentum and texting

In the game of seduction, keeping emotional momentum after you've met a girl is very important. One of the most primary, powerful and best tools for doing that without overextending yourself is text messages. Come up with a good variety of original, sweet, funny and interesting texts you can send to her, starting from the very day you meet her. You should have actual phone conversations within 2-3 days of first meeting, but keeping a text exchange going insures that you stay fresh in her mind and maintain her positive emotional associations with you.

12 free Valentine e-cards

Right-click the e-card and choose "save file as" to save an a-card to your computer.

Alpha-dominance vs. Rapport

Alpha-male dominance vs. Rapport

One thing we know for sure is that girls come in all different flavors, varieties, shapes and sizes. Not only in looks but more importantly in inner configuration and the manifestation of that, their behavior. The way girls look on the outside is usually linked closely to their mental behavior. For example, a 9= or 10-girl looks stunning, sexy and has an extreme physical attraction to guys. They have in most cases a large self-esteem. 7- or 8 type of girls have the looks, but are not naturally the absolute most attractive ones. They usually feel insecure about themselves and look for a guy who is both strong and touch as well as emotionally capable enough to understand her feelings. The lower you go, the more their need grows for this emotional interaction (getting rapport) with a guy.

Communication, more then words

How do I flirt with a girl?

Did you know, that in our communication with girls or even anyone else, words just only count for a very little percentage (some 15%) on the end-result...? What else is so much more important you may wonder? Well, think about gestures, posture, the intonation and tone of voice...but also our ability to interpret our counterpart correctly and swiftly.

In fact, when it comes down to the art of picking up girls, the actual words and sentences you squirt out on her are not quite so important. It's everything around it that matters most! You need to get her, so to speak, in a kind of trance-like state, to allow yourself to agree on whatever things you are about to propose to her. And that you are doing by influencing her mind with smoothly applied signals, the way you get the words out of your mouth into her brain and subtile actions.

Related to all of this is the concept of first impression. It defines for over 50% how a girl mentally sees and perceives you, even months or years after that first single impression, so be sure to get your act together right from the very first start!

Remember these things next time you're picking up a girl: ATTITUDE, APPEARANCE, BODY :LANGUAGE and EMOTIONAL EXPRESSION. If you know how to master these things, it really doesn't matter what you say to her (unless you call her dear mother a fat cow ofcourse).

Jealousy as a seduction tool

In many situations, depending on your subjevts' character and behaviour, using jealousy as a seduction tool could proof to be a very effective and powerful method you should sometimes utilize in your goal to to get a girl to have sex with you. If you manage to do it in a correct way, making her think it all comes from within herself, the jealousy seduction pattern can turn women from being totally careless about you to begging you to sleep with them! To be honest, in fact they think they want you more then they actually do. This technique makes them play hard for you as if you were the world-cup trophy and it most probably, at the end, makes them do things with you that they would normally would never ever consider doing!

Read the full article: Sex seduction secrets - How to use jealousy to get sex from women

Aphrodisiacs

Aphrodite, the goddess of
love and sex

From food to supplements and drugs to movies, music or books to many more, aphrodisiacs have been around for ages. In this article I'm going to explain which things work and which don't, why they do or don't work and how to properly use them to sexually enhance your opposite's mood for sex. An aphrodisiac is something that increases sexual desire. The name comes from Aphrodite, the Greek goddess of sexuality and love. Throughout history, many things have had a reputation for making sex more attainable and pleasurable.

Now, let's move-on to the interesting part:

List of CHEMICAL APHRODISIACS
Top 10 most effective FOOD APHRODISIACS
These proclaimed APHRODISIACS WON'T WORK
Top 5 most effective APHRODISIAC DRUGS
How to PROPERLY USE APHRODISIAC DRUGS
Top 25 most effective MOVIES to watch with a girl

The power of thoughts

You may believe that everything you thing is totally private and never leaves the boundaries of your body. Wrong! Thoughts actually are electrical pulses that not only travel through our brain and nervous-system, but are transmitted out of our bodies as well. Just like radio-signals, waves of thoughts are sent out continually. On a conscious level we, humans, are not able to receive and identify thoughts from other people, but sub-consciously we can. And we do it all the time! This plays a major role when we "somehow suspect" someone is lying to us, or when we "feel" something is wrong with another person.

So now that we know this, how can we benefit from it in our seduction game? Well, in two ways actually:

• First-off, we are going to use our thoughts to influence our subjects unconsciously. We're going to use special highly powerful though-patterns to get them to think whatever we want them to think. And they will never even know these thoughts are coming from outside.

• Second, we are going to learn how to consciously interpret certain thoughts and feelings we unconsciously receive from our subjects.

So it's a two-way game, extremely powerful and effective. I've put up two separate training guides in the VIP-section that enable you to learn all the tricks and techniques in a matter of weeks to months (depending on your own mental capabilities). Remember though, this is stuff for pro's...I highly recommend you only start with this when you learned all the basic seduction techniques first!

4 things to start you off

Self-confidence masters all

Professional seduction artists are trained to get any girl, in any circumstance and at any given moment. They use highly sophisticated, specialized techniques, routines and mind-tricks. But standing at the very start of the road to become a seduction pro you first need a set of basic skills to allow yourself an almost instant improvement of your game. Here are some of the most important ones:

• Train yourself to be fully confident of yourself. That may seem difficult when you lack self-confidence but in fact it's not that difficult at all when you are able to change your mind-set. You can use NLP or other methods to accomplish more self-esteem and confidence. More on this in the VIP section.
• First impressions are everything when it comes to interacting with girls. Never go out un-orderly, let your personal style stand out from the crowd and keep your body clean and tidy.
• Prepare a set of at least 10 basic (but original) openers that you can use in any situation at any given moment. Practice them in the mirror and try to make it look as natural as possible.
• When interacting with girls always breath calmly. Slow breathing relaxes not only the body but also the mind, and that gelps you to get through any situation you may find difficult.

Quick tip: Play with style

Okay, let me be clear: Girls simply don't like guys who brag, talk about sex -all the time-, pick their nose or dress out-of-line. Just a few examples of what you should never do around a girl you want (or her friends!). All of this has everything to do with adjusting your personal style to grow your success in the seduction game.

Here are a few other things that -in general- dis-attract:

• Not holding a door for her; girls are usually very particular on this
• ·Smoking when she doesn't smoke at all; it doesn't look cool, it looks weak
• Asking for money or favors; it shows her you cannot be independent
• Asking for her phone number; you should create a circumstance in which she gives it to you instead
• Keeping your house dirty and unorganized; this is a definite no-no for most girls when they come over
• Intermediately looking at your watch or phone; this shows disrespect, gives her a signal of boredom and gets her out of trance

See a complete list of 150 style-mistakes for seducers in the VIP section

Test subjects

Tell the McDrive girl to write her QQ
or Facebook ID on the receipt. Ddon't
ask her, tell her. Works most of the time.

This week I received an email from a reader who wishes to remain anonymous. He asked me what to do when you basically know some tricks but you lack the required self-confidence to actually get out there and do it. Well, the best way to grow your self-confidence in this specific area is to start at a comfortable level. Use small bits and pieces of the tips/tricks on this blog on girls you feel acceptably comfortable with, and with whom you don't necessarily need anything. Using the material on girls you are very distant at and see only once and never again is also a way to practice without too much emotional pressure.

For example, you may test your flirting skills on the KFC delivery line girl, a waitress in a coffee-shop or a stewardess on your next flight. Those are very safe test-subjects, who will usually stay polite with you (because they are in function) and you don't have to worry about people you know watching the whole thing.  Start small, slowly look into their eyes a little longer every time you practice, try a new line every now and then and try to analyze their reactions. Once you are feeling comfortable with interacting on a slightly more intimate level you will be able to grow your confidence and techniques bit by bit.

I'm putting a list up in the VIP section of possible test subjects.

Get sex from social media

Facebook: A great, safe tool for
picking up hot girls without having
to meet them first

Admit it, on Facebook you add hot girls that you don't really know, you flirt a little on Facebook chat, maybe do a little webcamming now and then. But getting these girls to actually have sex with you is a whole different dimension. There's a reason why people are so open and talkative on social network sites like Facebook, it's safe. Nobody else can see you, comments can be removed, friends can be blocked and written statae can be withdrawn in a matter of a click of tap.

To get girls out of this comfort zone and get them into your bed isn't the easiest thing to do for most guys. But there are certain proven techniques that can enable you to do exactly that! Basically you need three (3) conditions to be installed correctly.

1. Trust - You need to make sure she trusts you enough to let you access her protected zone (emotional level)
2. Added value - She need to be convinced that what you can give her is quite valuable to her (value level)
3. Attraction - You will need to attract her psyche, emotions and sex (sexual level)

These three ingredients together can potentially make any girl you meet on Facebook or some other social network into real life sexual adventure. Provided you do it all right of course. You can read all about that further ahead on this blog, so keep reading!!

TIP: Make sure you use a NATURAL profile picture that shows what a happy, fun-loving guy you are, keep a good posture, smile (naturally) and try to include an activity that you love to do such as playing the guitar, standing on a snowboard or play beach-volley. Girls love it!

TIP 2: Don't initiate a conversation with a cute sexy girl with things like "hey cutie...wow you look so sexy! wanna chat?" Girls get those kind of messages like a million times a day. Instead, try to open with a funny remark, ask her if she ever jumped from a plane before or something else original. Don't ever give her compliments! That will ruin your game!!!

EXTRA TIP: You can find some of the hottest girls on the sex social networking site Meendo (it's free and fun and a great way to practice your online seduction game!)

Share your story

As a writer it's always very nice to hear something back from readers, it gives me the chance to see more, and broader while I also love to know what happens in other people's lives. And both of us can benefit from both experiences and thoughts. So, do feel very welcome to email and share your own stories about seduction, sex and love. Or maybe you would rather write a guest-post, it's up to you! :)

The dependency pattern

Making a girl depend on you, whether emotional, psychological or physical is a great tactic to make sure she'syours at will. I'm not talking about feeding her drugs or getting her to depend on you financially; rather would you act to be the only guy who truly understands her feelings and emotions. Or you would "simply" give her the best sex she has ever had. I could name a few others, such as social dependency or you helping her ith her maths...at the end it all comes down to a situation in which she barely can do without something you are giving her.

The dependency pattern is a powerful tool in your seduction arsenal. You should always observe carefully and try to determine what her deepest needs really are. Once you figured that one out you can act on this opportunity. You could also use other techniques to escalate or explode certain needs she has, or downgrade them when they're not so favorable for you.